{"id":940,"date":"2018-02-10T15:50:00","date_gmt":"2018-02-10T15:50:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=940"},"modified":"2018-02-10T15:50:00","modified_gmt":"2018-02-10T15:50:00","slug":"ce-vede-copilul-tau","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=940","title":{"rendered":"Ce vede copilul tau?"},"content":{"rendered":"

O vizit\u0103 fulger \u00eentr-un magazin \u00een care de obicei g\u0103sesc lucruri frumoase. Nu \u0219i azi.\u00a0\u00cen timp ce caut jocuri de construit, suficient de complicate s\u0103 st\u00e2rneasc\u0103 interesul unui pu\u0219ti de 9 ani, observ c\u00e2teva covoare pentru camera copiilor. M\u0103 uit mai bine \u0219i m\u0103 \u00eentreb: covorul \u0103sta sigur e pentru copii?!?!?! I-am f\u0103cut o poz\u0103: o vede\u021bi mai jos. Vede\u021bi \u0219i voi tipele astea aproape dezbr\u0103cate care privesc lasciv peste um\u0103r? Sigur c\u0103 da, musai s\u0103 fie blonde, pe tocuri de 20cm. Sau brunete, dar cu fusta de-o palm\u0103 \u0219i cizme “sexi”.<\/p>\n

Doar e important s\u0103 \u00eei \u00eenv\u0103\u021b\u0103m de mici cu sexualitate exacerbat\u0103, cu femei care nu pot dec\u00e2t s\u0103 se plimbe dezbracate pentru a capta aten\u021bia unui b\u0103rbat, cu stereotipuri de genul: ma\u0219ini tari=femei frumoase.<\/p>\n

E mai simplu s\u0103 creasc\u0103 gata seta\u021bi: fetele s\u0103 \u00ee\u0219i poarte fundul pe afar\u0103 \u00een speran\u021ba c\u0103 vor prinde<\/p>\n

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o plimbare gratis cu ceva ma\u0219in\u0103 ultimul r\u0103cnet \u0219i b\u0103ie\u021bii s\u0103 devin\u0103 sclavii banilor fiindc\u0103 doar a\u0219a vor avea fufe pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 ei care s\u0103 le satisfac\u0103…ego-ul.<\/p>\n

Fain\u0103 strategie, nu?<\/p>\n

Tot mai des \u00een ultima vreme, \u00een sesiunile de coaching, clien\u021bii caut\u0103 solu\u021bii pentru a dep\u0103\u0219i revolta propriilor copii.<\/p>\n

Revolt\u0103 mascat\u0103 sub comportamente agresive, lips\u0103 de acas\u0103, obr\u0103znicie, crize de furie. S\u0103 ne mire? Chiar deloc! \u00cen primul r\u00e2nd noi adul\u021bii trebuie s\u0103 facem alegeri diferite dac\u0103 vrem rela\u021bii diferite cu cei din jur.<\/p>\n

\u0218i c\u00e2nd m\u0103 \u00eentreab\u0103 cineva: Bine, dar eu cum s\u0103 \u00eel schimb pe copilul meu s\u0103 nu mai fie a\u0219a? \u00eentotdeauna r\u0103spund: Hai s\u0103 vedem c\u00e2t esti dispus s\u0103 schimbi la tine \u00eent\u00e2i.<\/p>\n

Suntem responsabili ca p\u0103rin\u021bi de s\u0103n\u0103tatea emo\u021bional\u0103 a copiilor. Degeaba ne trezim c\u00e2nd au 20 de ani c\u0103 Vaaaii, nu \u00eemi mai recunosc copilul! Eu nu a\u0219a l-am crescut!<\/p>\n

\u00cendemnul meu e s\u0103 fim aten\u021bi. S\u0103 ne deschidem ochii. De ce dintre toate produsele sclipicioase \u0219i ambalate care mai de care mai frumos, mi-a c\u0103zut privirea exact pe acest covor? Poate fi un semnal de alarm\u0103.<\/p>\n

Da, lumea \u00een care tr\u0103im e plin\u0103 de oameni meschini, cu interese, cu zeci de fe\u021be. Da, e mult mai u\u0219or s\u0103 faci pe cineva dependent de ceva (orice: zahar, pornografie, alcool, selfie) mai ales dac\u0103 \u00eencepi de la v\u00e2rst\u0103 fraged\u0103 \u0219i \u00eei livrezi mesajul din toate p\u0103r\u021bile.<\/p>\n

Dar nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 dac\u0103 un lucru este des \u00eent\u00e2lnit reprezint\u0103 firescul, normalul.<\/p>\n

Andrea, life-coach<\/p>\n

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