{"id":907,"date":"2017-09-18T22:07:41","date_gmt":"2017-09-18T22:07:41","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=907"},"modified":"2017-09-18T22:07:41","modified_gmt":"2017-09-18T22:07:41","slug":"conteaza","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=907","title":{"rendered":"Conteaz\u0103?"},"content":{"rendered":"

Acum un an, exact pe vremea asta, afar\u0103 era toamn\u0103 superb\u0103. \u00cen sufletul meu \u00eens\u0103, furtun\u0103. M\u0103 g\u0103seam \u00eentr-o conjunctur\u0103 pe care o percepeam f\u0103r\u0103 ie\u0219ire, un scenariu idiot care trebuie dus p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t de\u0219i e clar c\u0103 piesa e proast\u0103. Ca atunci c\u00e2nd esti la teatru, ai locuri pe mijlocul r\u00e2ndului \u0219i de\u0219i ai vrea s\u0103 pleci nu \u00eendr\u0103zne\u0219ti: ti-e ru\u0219ine s\u0103-i deranjezi pe to\u021bi ceilal\u021bi.\u00a0Nu-mi place s\u0103 fiu constr\u00e2ns\u0103 de situa\u021bie, \u0219i r\u0103utatea gratuit\u0103 m\u0103 enerveaz\u0103 teribil. Aveam parte de am\u00e2ndou\u0103, din belsug! M\u0103 str\u0103duiam din r\u0103sputeri s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n calm\u0103, lucid\u0103, orientat\u0103 c\u0103tre solu\u021bionarea conflictului. \u00cemi era \u00eens\u0103 imposibil! Sau cel pu\u021bin a\u0219a credeam eu.<\/p>\n

Eram \u00een plin\u0103 “interac\u021biune” cu un organism al statului rom\u00e2n. \u0218i \u00eel scriu inten\u021bionat f\u0103r\u0103 majuscule. Organism \u00een care, a\u0219a cum se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 de at\u00e2tea ori, lucreaz\u0103 diverse personaje: unul mai divers ca cel\u0103lat. Eu d\u0103dusem peste 3 exemplare at\u00e2t de anapoda \u00eencat nu-mi venea s\u0103 cred.<\/p>\n

\"\"<\/a>Senzatia pe care o aveam la nesf\u00e2r\u0219it era c\u0103 se termin\u0103 lumea. C\u0103 mai r\u0103u nu se poate. C\u0103 prostia este infinit\u0103. Cumva, cu mari eforturi atat din partea mea c\u00e2t \u0219i a c\u00e2torva apropia\u021bi, g\u0103sim solu\u021bii \u0219i trecem peste hop. M-a b\u00e2ntuit \u00eens\u0103 mult\u0103 vreme experien\u021ba asta \u0219i eram sigur\u0103 c\u0103 m\u0103 va b\u00e2ntui toat\u0103 via\u021ba.<\/p>\n

Ete, f\u00e2s! La 1 an distan\u021b\u0103, r\u00e2d de toat\u0103 \u0219arada \u0219i \u00eemi amintesc una dintre \u00eentreb\u0103rile de baz\u0103 din procesul de coaching “Va conta cu adevarat peste 5 ani?”.<\/p>\n

Tot ce percepi acum ca fiind un adevarat dezastru s-ar putea ca peste 5 ani s\u0103 nu mai conteze.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

\u0218i atunci, \u0219tiind c\u0103 vei avea un moment \u00een care te vei putea deta\u0219a de “dezastru”, e mult mai u\u0219or s\u0103 g\u0103se\u0219ti solu\u021biile potrivite pentru a reduce efectele negative. Fiindc\u0103 la un moment dat, nu va mai avea aceasi importanta pentru tine. Pur si simplu nu va mai conta. Si dac\u0103 nu va conta, de ce s\u0103 te umpli acum de am\u0103r\u0103ciune?<\/p>\n

Sunt pu\u021bine lucrurile care au intr-adev\u0103r semnifica\u021bia dezastrului. Dar avem tendin\u021ba de a ne victimiza sau de a exagera.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

E provocator, e greu. Dar c\u00e2\u0219tigi s\u0103n\u0103tate, nervi \u0219i bani; toate acestea sunt importante.<\/p>\n

Cu drag, \u0219i nervi irosi\u021bi dar \u0219i nervi salva\u021bi, Andrea<\/p>\n

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Acum un an, exact pe vremea asta, afar\u0103 era toamn\u0103 superb\u0103. \u00cen sufletul meu \u00eens\u0103, furtun\u0103. M\u0103 g\u0103seam \u00eentr-o conjunctur\u0103…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[416,15,413,16,412,415,414,124],"class_list":["post-907","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-https-blog-andreaneag-com-tagcoachingpentruperformanta","tag-ani","tag-coaching-2","tag-ironie","tag-life","tag-nervi","tag-organism","tag-rautate","tag-stat","post-archive"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/907","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=907"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/907\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":909,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/907\/revisions\/909"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=907"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=907"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=907"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}