{"id":878,"date":"2017-04-22T16:04:38","date_gmt":"2017-04-22T16:04:38","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=878"},"modified":"2017-04-22T16:10:36","modified_gmt":"2017-04-22T16:10:36","slug":"sensul-vietii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=878","title":{"rendered":"Sensul vietii"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cel c\u0103ut\u0103m cu to\u021bii: uneori con\u0219tient alteori incon\u0219tient \ud83d\ude42 Ne \u00eentreb\u0103m care este. \u00cei d\u0103m tot soiul de nume. Vrem s\u0103 \u00eel descoperim pe al nostru. \u0218i e foarte bine c\u0103 e a\u0219a.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_880\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-880\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-8.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-880\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-8-300x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-8-300x300.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-8-150x150.jpeg 150w, https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-8.jpeg 640w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-880\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sursa:pinterest.com<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Trecem prin tot felul de etape, atribuind acestei c\u0103ut\u0103ri profunde, semnifica\u021bii materiale. Niciodat\u0103 faptul c\u0103 \u021bi-ai luat o ma\u0219in\u0103 nou\u0103 nu te va face pe deplin fericit. Poate un pic satisf\u0103cut, un pic m\u00e2ndru. Dar nu fericit. Niciodat\u0103 o cas\u0103 nou\u0103, o garderob\u0103 nou\u0103, o excursie c\u0103tre o destina\u021bie \u00eendep\u0103rtat\u0103, nu \u00ee\u021bi vor alimenta fericirea pe termen lung.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>Ceea ce este cu adev\u0103rat important, ceea ce are ca \u0219i consecin\u021b\u0103 fericirea, nu se poate cump\u0103ra cu lei, euro, dolari sau alte monede.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Cu toate astea, poate te-ai l\u0103sat fermecat de mirajul lui &#8220;a avea&#8221;. Cumva, \u00een societatea actual\u0103, c\u00e2nd majoritatea te valideaz\u0103 ca fiind &#8220;de succes&#8221; atunci c\u00e2nd ai (o cas\u0103, o ma\u0219in\u0103, un job, o imagine perfecta) e foarte u\u0219or s\u0103 te ia valul \u0219i s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi concentrezi toate eforturile pentru a avea mai mult, pentru a impresiona mai tare.\u00a0Cu toate astea, am cunoscut oameni care au (\u0219i sunt invidia\u021bi pentru asta) dar nu sunt. Nu sunt Ferici\u021bi, nu sunt Echilibra\u021bi, nu sunt \u00cemp\u0103ca\u021bi.<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>S\u0103 ne \u00een\u021belegem: nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 e o problem\u0103 s\u0103 vrei s\u0103 ai diverse lucruri. Problema e c\u00e2nd faci din asta un scop, \u0219i nu o consecin\u021b\u0103.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00cen momentul \u00een care te vezi pe un piedestal doar pentru c\u0103 ai diverse \u0219i acest lucru \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 un fel de satisfac\u021bie de sine &#8220;uite ce na\u0219pa sunt \u0103ia c\u0103 nu au ma\u0219ina X a\u0219a cum am eu. Uite ce om de baz\u0103 sunt eu pentru c\u0103 am 4 camere \u0219i \u0103\u0219tia stau in 2&#8221;- e\u0219ti pe calea gre\u0219it\u0103. Da&#8217; r\u0103u de tot. Cum ar spune unii, e\u0219ti pe ar\u0103tur\u0103. E semn c\u0103 ai nevoie s\u0103 te \u00eentorci la ceea ce conteaz\u0103 cu adev\u0103rat.<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_879\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-879\" style=\"width: 195px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-7.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-879\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-7-195x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"195\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-7-195x300.jpeg 195w, https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-7.jpeg 390w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 195px) 100vw, 195px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-879\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sursa:Libris.ro<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Citesc acum o carte autobigrafic\u0103, sincer\u0103 \u0219i incomod\u0103. Victor Frakl a fost supravituitor al lag\u0103relor de la Auschwitz si Dachau. Apoi, a devenit profesor de neurologie si psihiatrie la Universitatea din Viena \u0219i \u0219ef al Clinicii de Neurologie. A creat cea de-a treia \u0219coal\u0103 vienez\u0103 de psihoterapie: logoterapia. Celalate dou\u0103 sunt \u0219coala freudian\u0103 \u0219i cea adlerian\u0103. \u0218i spre deosebire de multi al\u021bi existen\u021biali\u0219ti, Frankl nu este nici pesimist, nici antireligios.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u0218i chiar \u00een prefa\u021ba edi\u021biei din 1984, autorul pune pe h\u00e2rtie cateva cuvinte care m-au determinat s\u0103 gandesc a\u0219a: \u0219i dac\u0103 asta ar fi toat\u0103 cartea, o fraz\u0103, \u0219i tot ar fi suficient \u0219i minunat. Iat\u0103:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">&#8220;Nu \u021binti\u021bi spre succes c\u0103ci cu c\u00e2t mai mult \u00eel dori\u021bi \u0219i cu c\u00e2t face\u021bi din el un scop, cu at\u00e2t mai mult ve\u021bi rata. C\u0103ci succesul, asemenea fericirii, nu poate fi urm\u0103rit; el trebuie s\u0103 urmeze, \u0219i chiar numai a\u0219a se \u0219i \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103, ca un efect secundar neinten\u021bionat, din acea dedicare a omului fa\u021b\u0103 de o cauz\u0103 mai mare dec\u00e2t el \u00eensu\u0219i, sau ca un produs secundar al d\u0103ruirii de sine c\u0103tre o alt\u0103 persoan\u0103. Fericirea trebuie s\u0103 vin\u0103 de la sine &#8211; \u0219i faptul acesta este valabil \u0219i pentru succes: trebuie s\u0103 \u00eel la\u0219i s\u0103 se produc\u0103 tocmai nepurt\u00e2ndu-i de grij\u0103. Vreau s\u0103 asculta\u021bi ce anume v\u0103 porunce\u0219te con\u0219tiin\u021ba s\u0103 face\u021bi \u0219i s\u0103 duce\u021bi la bun sf\u00e2r\u0219it lucrul acela, pe c\u00e2t de bine v\u0103 st\u0103 \u00een putin\u021b\u0103. Atunci ve\u021bi apuca ziua c\u00e2nd ve\u021bi vedea c\u0103, pe termen lung-repet: pe termen lung! -, succesul v\u0103 va urma tocmai pentru c\u0103 a\u021bi uitat s\u0103 v\u0103 g\u00e2ndi\u021bi la el.&#8221;<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<figure id=\"attachment_881\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-881\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-9.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-881\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-9-300x227.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"227\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-9-300x227.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-9-396x300.jpeg 396w, https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-9.jpeg 670w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-881\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Sursa:Libris.ro<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Azi \u00eei am al\u0103turi pe Nicolae Steinhardt \u0219i Victor Frankl. S\u0103 \u0219tii c\u0103 sunt tipi de ga\u0219c\u0103, te Invit s\u0103 \u00eei Cuno\u0219ti \u0219i tu. Sunt din trupa celor care, subtil, vorbesc despre devenirea personal\u0103. Primul meu articol in care vorbesc despre diferen\u021ba dintre dezvoltarea personala \u0219i devenirea personal\u0103 \u00eel po\u021bi citi aici:\u00a0\u00a0<a href=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=853\">https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=853<\/a>\u00a0.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u00centorc\u00e2ndu-ne la sensul vie\u021bii, vedem c\u0103 are de-a face cu &#8220;ceva&#8221; mult mai profund decat ceea ce ne este acum servit pe tav\u0103 pe post de fel principal. A\u0219adar, te Invit s\u0103 cite\u0219ti cartea \u0219i apoi, s\u0103 dezbatem \u00eempreun\u0103. Po\u021bi comenta aici, sau imi poti trimite impresiile tale pe adresa de e-mail: contact@andreaneag.com.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Cu drag (\u0219i sens), Andrea<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>\u00cel c\u0103ut\u0103m cu to\u021bii: uneori con\u0219tient alteori incon\u0219tient \ud83d\ude42 Ne \u00eentreb\u0103m care este. \u00cei d\u0103m tot soiul de nume. 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