{"id":849,"date":"2017-04-10T13:42:13","date_gmt":"2017-04-10T13:42:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=849"},"modified":"2017-04-10T21:35:48","modified_gmt":"2017-04-10T21:35:48","slug":"cum-sa-nu-ti-mai-plangi-de-mila-lunea-mare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=849","title":{"rendered":"Cum s\u0103 nu-\u021bi mai pl\u00e2ngi de mil\u0103 -Lunea Mare"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Azi, despre turnura interesant\u0103 pe care o are via\u021ba deseori. Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 s\u0103 ajungem \u00een situa\u021bii diverse si s\u0103 exclam\u0103m:&#8221;de ce mi se \u00eent\u00e2mpla asta? De ce tocmai acum?&#8221;<\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_850\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-850\" style=\"width: 300px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-4.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-850\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-4-300x200.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"300\" height=\"200\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-4-300x200.jpeg 300w, https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-4-451x300.jpeg 451w, https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-4.jpeg 466w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 300px) 100vw, 300px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-850\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">pinterest.com<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">\u0218i de cele mai multe ori tocmai faptul c\u0103 ajungem \u00eentr-o asemenea situa\u021bie \u00eenseamn\u0103 un c\u00e2\u0219tig pentru noi. Suntem nevoi\u021bi s\u0103 ie\u0219im din zona de confort, s\u0103 ne revizuim reperele, valorile, rela\u021biile cu ceilal\u021bi. Descoperim \u00een noi resurse neb\u0103nuite. Ne punem la treab\u0103 abilit\u0103\u021bile, ne deschidem c\u0103tre oportunit\u0103\u021bi.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Dar nu vedem asta de la bun \u00eenceput. \u00cent\u00e2i ne doare. Nu \u00een\u021belegem ce se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 \u0219i cum vom putea trece cu bine \u0219i peste acest episod. Vrem cu disperare ca totul s\u0103 fie ca \u00eenainte. Ajungem s\u0103-i ur\u00e2m pe cei care ne tr\u0103deaz\u0103. Cu c\u00e2t rezisten\u021ba ta la schimbare este mai mare, cu at\u00e2t \u00ee\u021bi va fi mai greu s\u0103 identifici posibilele aspecte pozitive \u00een situa\u021bia aparent negativ\u0103.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Tu cum faci fa\u021b\u0103 momentelor 0 din via\u021ba ta?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Apoi, mai sunt clipele \u00een care te irose\u0219ti. Te Invit s\u0103 te g\u00e2nde\u0219ti la c\u00e2t de mult \u00ee\u021bi valorifici punctele forte \u00een via\u021ba de zi cu zi.<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">C\u00e2t dai din ceea ce e\u0219ti?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">La un moment dat, va fi prea greu s\u0103 recuperezi tot timpul irosit. \u0218tiu, nu ne place s\u0103 ne g\u00e2ndim la asta. Vrem s\u0103 credem c\u0103 avem tot timpul din lume. Nu e a\u0219a. Da, \u00een majoritatea c\u0103r\u021bilor \u0219i materialelor de dezvoltare personal\u0103 se vehiculeaz\u0103 ideea c\u0103 &#8220;niciodat\u0103 nu e prea t\u00e2rziu!po\u021bi face tot ce \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti! Tot ce conteaz\u0103 e s\u0103 vrei cu adevarat!&#8221; Mda, sigur c\u0103 da. At\u00e2ta doar c\u0103 trebuie s\u0103 munce\u0219ti de 100 de ori mai mult, s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dore\u0219ti de 1000 de ori mai tare. Cum ar fi s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi dai timp de introspec\u021bie c\u00e2t mai des, s\u0103 cau\u021bi ad\u00e2nc \u00een tine ceea ce te caracterizeaz\u0103 \u0219i s\u0103 oferi celor din jur toate acestea? \u00ce\u021bi dai seama ce av\u00e2nt ai avea?<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Inspira\u021bia pentru cele scrise mai sus st\u0103 \u00een Semnifica\u021bia zilei de azi:Lunea Mare. Pentru \u00eentreaga cre\u0219tin\u0103tate acum este o perioad\u0103 deosebit\u0103: S\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2na Mare sau S\u0103pt\u0103mana Patimilor. \u00cen Lunea Mare se pomene\u0219te patriarhul Iosif care a fost v\u00e2ndut de fra\u021bii s\u0103i (daca tot vorbeam de dezam\u0103giri \u0219i tr\u0103d\u0103ri \u00een rela\u021bii) ajunge \u00een pu\u0219c\u0103rie (moment 0 critic) \u0219i din condi\u021bia de prizonier ajunge \u00een pozi\u021bia de administrator peste tot Egiptul (genul de american Dream doar c\u0103 se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 cu mult \u00eenaintea Americii). Lucru care nu s-ar fi \u00eent\u00e2mplat dac\u0103 \u0219i-ar fi pl\u00e2ns de mil\u0103.<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Tot \u00een Lunea Mare se pomene\u0219te smochinul neroditor ca pild\u0103 despre iubire \u0219i dreptate. Te po\u021bi g\u00e2ndi la proverbialul &#8220;Dumnezeu \u00ee\u021bi d\u0103 da&#8217; nu-\u021bi bag\u0103 \u00een traist\u0103!&#8221; sau la vehiculatul &#8220;a\u0219teapt\u0103 totul mur\u0103-n gur\u0103!&#8221;. Sau la interna\u021bionalul &#8220;fortune favores prepared mind&#8221;. Adica tot timpul pe care il petreci lament\u00e2mdu-te c\u0103 nu po\u021bi, nu \u0219tii, nu crezi este timp irosit. \u00cen schimb, te Invit s\u0103 fii creativ, s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi adresezi \u00eentreb\u0103ri precum:<\/p>\n<blockquote>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Cum a\u0219 putea face asta, altfel? Ce pot schimba? Cum \u00eemi folosesc resursele existente pentru a-mi maximiza c\u00e2\u0219tigul?<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n<figure id=\"attachment_851\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-851\" style=\"width: 242px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-5.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-851\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-5-242x300.jpeg\" alt=\"\" width=\"242\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-5-242x300.jpeg 242w, https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2017\/04\/image-5.jpeg 350w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 242px) 100vw, 242px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-851\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">pinterest.com<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\">Asum\u0103-\u021bi condi\u021bia. Descoper\u0103 \u0219i lucreaz\u0103 cu punctele tale forte. Fii smochin roditor!<\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: left;\">Cu drag (\u0219i smochine), Andrea<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Azi, despre turnura interesant\u0103 pe care o are via\u021ba deseori. Se \u00eent\u00e2mpl\u0103 s\u0103 ajungem \u00een situa\u021bii diverse si s\u0103 exclam\u0103m:&#8221;de&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[354,360,15,357,269,289,150,358,359,227,353,361,356,355],"class_list":["post-849","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-https-blog-andreaneag-com-tagcoachingpentruperformanta","tag-ambitie","tag-castig","tag-coaching-2","tag-criza","tag-descoperire","tag-echilibru","tag-empatie","tag-introspectie","tag-lunea","tag-mare","tag-mila","tag-resurse","tag-situatii","tag-valori","post-archive"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/849","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=849"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/849\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":867,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/849\/revisions\/867"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=849"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=849"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=849"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}