{"id":565,"date":"2016-07-17T14:59:15","date_gmt":"2016-07-17T14:59:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=565"},"modified":"2016-09-14T23:34:39","modified_gmt":"2016-09-14T23:34:39","slug":"22","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=565","title":{"rendered":"22"},"content":{"rendered":"

At\u00e2tea luni are fiul meu, Siluan. \u0218i le \u00eempline\u0219te fix azi. Azi, care e zgribulit\u0103 \u0219i friguroas\u0103, dar el doarme lin \u00een pijamaua pufoas\u0103 cu ur\u0219i -a ales-o \u00een detrimentul celei cu tigrii si baloane-. \u00cenainte sa adoarm\u0103, r\u00e2de mult. Eu \u00eel a\u0219ez \u00een p\u0103tu\u021b, el se ridic\u0103 \u00een picioare, se lipe\u0219te de mine \u0219i r\u00e2z\u00e2nd, spune Mama-mama. Ne lipim obrajii unul de altul \u0219i el iar r\u00e2de \u0219i cu m\u00e2inile lui mici-mici m\u0103 m\u00e2ng\u00e2ie pe ochi, pe p\u0103r, pe nas. \u00centru-un final, adoarme, chicotind.<\/p>\n

Am observat c\u0103 sunt, \u00een mare, 2 categorii de p\u0103rin\u021bi: cei care zic “las\u0103-l c\u0103 si asa e mic, ce s\u0103 stie un copil de 1 an, de 3 ani, de 5 ani etc ?!?” \u0219i cei care zic “Copilul simte, \u00een\u021belege, absoarbe. De la \u00eenceputul vie\u021bii lui”. Clar, eu sunt in a doua categorie. Asta mi-a dat ceva b\u0103t\u0103i de cap. C\u0103 mie nu imi ajunge s\u0103 \u0219tiu cum se face practic stimularea motric\u0103, stimularea senzorial\u0103; eu vreau s\u0103 \u0219tiu cum \u00eel ajut\u0103 toate astea, de la fizic (formarea sinapselor, de exemplu!!) la emo\u021bional (cum percepe teama, frustrarea etc) Toat\u0103 dorin\u021ba mea se transform\u0103 \u00een ore de studiu(pedagogia Montessori, Alfie Kohn, seminarii de parenting), de confec\u021bionat juc\u0103rii(dac\u0103 \u00eemi zicea cineva acum 2 ani c\u0103 voi v\u00e2na capace de diferite forme pentru \"image\"<\/a>pl\u0103ci senzoriale i-as fi zis s\u0103 faca o plimbare!), de studiat pia\u021ba(sa vad de unde pot cumpara materialele potrivite). Asta-i partea cu b\u0103t\u0103ile de cap. \u0218i cu nesomnul. Probabil c\u0103 la urm\u0103torii copii deja voi fi antrenat\u0103 100% dar cum Siluan este primul nostru copil, eforturile sunt pe m\u0103sur\u0103 :))))<\/p>\n

Dar joaca…compenseaz\u0103 tot. \u00cenv\u0103\u021barea prin joac\u0103, dezvoltarea prin joac\u0103. Absolut fabuloas\u0103. Am r\u00e2s impreuna cu Siluan \u00een aceste luni c\u00e2t n-am r\u00e2s de c\u00e2nd sunt. \u0218i eu am 30 de ani \u0219i sunt o fire vesel\u0103.<\/p>\n

Merg\u00e2nd \u00eempreun\u0103 cu el la cursurile FasTracKids, la atelierele Montessori, la baby sport, la Baby’s Best Start, am descoperit c\u0103 joaca are multe sensuri. Am \u00een\u021beles mirarea copiilor. Am descoperit profesioni\u0219ti. Ne-am facut prieteni. \u0218i am \u00een\u021beles pe deplin zicala “creste v\u0103z\u00e2nd cu ochii”.<\/p>\n

Pe l\u00e2ng\u0103 “c\u00e2t e de frumos!”, despre Siluan aud cel mai des “e foarte lini\u0219tit. Cum de e asa calm?” \u0219i “ai de mine cat e de activ!” \u00centr-adev\u0103r, Siluan se mi\u0219c\u0103 mult, dar f\u0103r\u0103 zbucium. Dac\u0103 nu citeam c\u00e2t am citit pe tema asta, dac\u0103 nu participam la seminariile de parenting, a\u0219 fi zis “asa e firea lui, asta e personalitatea lui”. Acum \u00eens\u0103, \u0219tiu clar c\u0103 este un copil cu nevoile \u00eemplinite. \u0218i nici m\u0103car nu e mare filozofie, uite aici un material scurt si concis despre nevoile copiilor\u00a0Urania Cremene seminar<\/a>\u00a0.<\/p>\n

Mai aud foarte des \u0219i asta “vai da’ c\u00e2t timp \u00eeti consumi cu toate cercet\u0103rile astea.” \u0218i “ce multe faci pentru el, c\u00e2te grij\u0103, c\u00e2t\u0103 preocupare” etc etc. Oric\u00e2te am face noi, parintii lui pentru el, Siluan face de 10 ori mai mult pentru noi: r\u00e2de, \u0219i casa se umple de lumin\u0103. El r\u00e2de 90% din zi, deci casa noastra este foarte luminoas\u0103. \u0218i intr-o cas\u0103 luminoas\u0103 nu ai cum s\u0103 fii sup\u0103rat, oric\u00e2te necazuri ai avea. \u00cemparte afec\u021biune f\u0103r\u0103 limite: ne pup\u0103, ne \u00eembratiseaz\u0103, ne m\u00e2ng\u00e2ie, ne c\u00e2nt\u0103. Asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 \u0219i noi c\u00e2nt\u0103m cu el, dans\u0103m, \u00eel pup\u0103m, ne alint\u0103m. \u0218i cu asa “schimb” de afec\u021biune, nu pot decat s\u0103 m\u0103 uit \u00een ochii lui maaaaarrriiiiii, cu genele lunnnggggiiii, \u0219i s\u0103 simt c\u0103 totul va fi bine. Oric\u00e2t de sucit este prezentul.<\/p>\n

22 de luni \u0219i o lume \u00eentreag\u0103 de iubit.<\/p>\n

Andrea<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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