{"id":1413,"date":"2025-07-08T11:22:08","date_gmt":"2025-07-08T11:22:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=1413"},"modified":"2025-07-08T11:26:51","modified_gmt":"2025-07-08T11:26:51","slug":"bunica-mi-a-zis-sa-ti-spun-ca-ii-pare-rau","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=1413","title":{"rendered":"Bunica mi-a zis s\u0103-\u021bi spun c\u0103 \u00eei pare r\u0103u"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Nu e doar un roman. E un mod de tr\u0103i. E o posibilitate de a merge la drum cu Via\u021ba. Am citit-o printre r\u00e2sete \u0219i lacrimi, cu fericire \u0219i durere. Toate \u00een acela\u0219i timp. Cartea asta mi-a ar\u0103tat cum arat\u0103 pasiunea \u0219i iubirea pentru oameni, \u00eentr-un mod \u00eencare nu m\u0103 a\u0219teptam. Personajele sunt at\u00e2t de reale, curge Via\u021ba prin fiecare r\u00e2nd scris. A\u0219 putea scrie despre fiecare personaj din cartea asta, at\u00e2t sunt de &#8230; pline!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201eTrebuie s\u0103 crezi. A\u0219a zicea bunica mereu. Trebuie s\u0103 crezi \u00een ceva ca s\u0103 po\u021bi \u00een\u021belege pove\u0219tile. Nu s\u0103 crezi \u00een ceva b\u0103tut \u00een cuie, dar s\u0103 crezi \u00een ceva, altfel n-ai dec\u00e2t s-o dai dracului de treab\u0103.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Bunica este prima mea \u00eent\u00e2lnire cu Fredrik Backman, gra\u021bie prietenei mele care precis s-a decis, \u00een secret, c\u0103 ar fi cazul s\u0103 m\u0103 \u00eendr\u0103gostesc de Backman \u0219i lumea lui. Nici nu \u0219tie ce favoare mi-a f\u0103cut!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201eBunica Elsei tr\u0103ia \u00eentr-un alt ritm dec\u00e2t restul lumii. Func\u021biona altfel. \u00cen lumea real\u0103, practic\u0103, ea era haos, dar c\u00e2nd lumea real\u0103 se pr\u0103bu\u0219e\u0219te \u0219i totul devine haotic, oamenii ca ea sunt singurii func\u021bionali. Asta era superputerea ei. A\u0219a c\u0103, atunci c\u00e2nd bunica pleca \u00een vreun loc din lume, de-un lucru puteai s\u0103 fii sigur: era un loc de unde toat\u0103 lumea \u00eencerca s\u0103 fug\u0103 \u00een acel moment.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>C\u00e2nd am terminat cartea, am reluat-o. fix atunci, pe loc. F\u0103r\u0103 ezit\u0103ri. C\u00e2nd am \u00eenchis-o a doua oar\u0103, primul meu g\u00e2nd a fost: Doamne, Iisuse Hristoase, c\u00e2t de r\u0103u \u00eemi pare de cei care nu citesc cartea asta! E ca \u0219i cum le-ar lipsi&#8230; o parte din inim\u0103. Pentru c\u0103 timp de c\u00e2teva zile am purtat-o cu mine peste tot, copiii mei au devenit extrem de curio\u0219i \u0219i am \u00eenceput s\u0103 le povestesc despre personaje, sau chiar s\u0103 le citesc pagini \u00eentregi. Erau la fel de entuziasma\u021bi ca \u0219i mine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>O iubesc pe Elsa, feti\u021ba de 7 ani care trebuie s\u0103 sufere mai mult dec\u00e2t poate duce un copil at\u00e2t de mic, dar care, prin excentricitatea \u0219i autenticitatea bunicii, dep\u0103\u0219e\u0219te nasoliile vie\u021bii. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201eElsa are \u0219apte ani. De fapt, aproape opt. Nu prea se pricepe s\u0103 aib\u0103 \u0219apte ani. \u0218tie asta. \u0218tie c\u0103-i altfel\u2026 Din cauza asta n-are niciun prieten \u00een afar\u0103 de bunica. Din cauza c\u0103 to\u021bi cei de \u0219apte ani de la \u0219coala ei sunt ni\u0219te t\u00e2mpi\u021bi, a\u0219a cum sunt, de regul\u0103, copiii de \u0219apte ani. Dar Elsa e altel.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Clar o ador pe Bunica, \u0219i nu pot opri g\u00e2ndul care \u00eemi zice c\u0103 \u201ea\u0219a vreau \u0219i eu s\u0103 \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2nesc. Cu tot curajul, asumarea, umorul, \u0219i sim\u021bul de observatie al Bunicii, cu toat\u0103 pasiunea ei!\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Britt-Marie m-a enervat la maxim, \u00een toate paginile, dar m-a impresionat \u0219i cucerit  \u00een romanul urm\u0103tor a lui Backman: \u201eBritt-Marie a fost aici\u201d. Ce m-a \u00eenv\u0103\u021bat Britt-Marie? C\u0103 e periculos s\u0103 pui etichete \u0219i e \u0219i mai periculos s\u0103 judeci un om doar dup\u0103 c\u00e2teva lucruri pe care le \u0219tii despre el. \u0218i c\u0103 oamenii sunt spectaculo\u0219i, c\u00e2nd \u00ee\u0219i dau voie. C\u0103 Via\u021ba poate fi tr\u0103it\u0103 \u0219i mai t\u00e2rziu, c\u00e2nd ai zice c\u0103 toate s-au terminat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Partea mea favorit\u0103 din carte? Pfuuuuu e foarte greu s\u0103 aleg. Dar m-a impresionat momentul c\u00e2nd Bunica decide s\u0103 schimbe modul \u00een care Elsa \u00ee\u0219i va aminti o zi anume din via\u021ba ei. O zi care ar fi putut deveni o suferin\u021b\u0103 traumatic\u0103 pentru copil\u0103, dar Bunica o transform\u0103 \u00een ziua \u00een care ele dou\u0103 intr\u0103 clandestin \u00een gr\u0103dina ZOO \u0219i orice altceva p\u0103le\u0219te \u00een fa\u021ba acestei experien\u021be \ud83d\ude42 Mai multe nu v\u0103 spun, c\u0103 nu doresc s\u0103 v\u0103 stric bucuria de a descoperi voi acest moment. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Am terminat-o av\u00e2nd \u00een inim\u0103 un puternic sentiment de recuno\u0219tin\u021b\u0103. Am intrat \u00een lumea Backman. Si e o adev\u0103rat\u0103 bucurie. Voi scrie despre fiecare carte Backman pe care o citesc, adic\u0103 despre toate c\u0103rtile lui traduse \u00een rom\u00e2n\u0103. :))))) Si sper s\u0103 le cite\u0219ti \u0219i tu.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u201eA avea o bunic\u0103 e ca \u0219i cum ai avea o armat\u0103. E privilegiul suprem al oric\u0103rui nepot s\u0103 \u0219tie c\u0103 are \u00eentotdeauna pe cineva de partea sa, indiferent de situa\u021bie. Chiar \u0219i c\u00e2nd gre\u0219e\u0219te. De fapt, mai ales atunci. O bunic\u0103 e sabie \u0219i scut \u0219i e o iubire cu totul aparte. Bunica \u0219tie mai bine. Bunica \u00een\u021belege mai multe. Bunica e una dintre aceia pe care s\u0103-i iei cu tine \u00een b\u0103t\u0103lie.\u201d<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>Andrea N<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nu e doar un roman. E un mod de tr\u0103i. 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