Asear\u0103, \u00een Oaza de Coaching: Tu, \u00eentre d\u0103ruire \u0219i limite, am ajuns p\u00e2n\u0103 la smerenie. Pentru c\u0103 \u00een coaching e fix ca \u00een via\u021b\u0103: porne\u0219ti dintr-un punct \u0219i pe parcurs descoperi alte \u0219i alte substraturi care te influen\u021beaz\u0103 sau care \u00ee\u021bi ridic\u0103 \u00eentreb\u0103ri. Cum am ajuns la smerenie? <\/p>\n\n\n\n
P\u0103i am pornit de la limite s\u0103n\u0103toase (pe care nu le punem) \u0219i de la d\u0103ruirea excesiv\u0103 (pe care o facem aproape natural, atunci c\u00e2nd nu avem limite s\u0103n\u0103toase), \u0219i s-a n\u0103scut aceast\u0103 \u00eentrebare: dar asta nu e smerenie? atunci c\u00e2nd ne d\u0103ruim pe noi f\u0103r\u0103 limite? R\u0103spunsul foarte pe scurt este NU.<\/strong> R\u0103spunsul mai pe larg, \u00een cele ce urmeaz\u0103. \ud83d\ude42 Asear\u0103 ne-am oprit la acest r\u0103spuns scurt, fiindc\u0103 noi lucram pe un workbook foarteee fain, pe care l-am conceput special pt acest atelier (\u00eel g\u0103se\u0219ti pe site, in sec\u021biunea Oaza de Coaching\/Resurse\/Download)<\/strong>. Dar acum, hai s\u0103 vedem: <\/p>\n\n\n\n Uneori, ca s\u0103 definesc ceva, \u00eencep prin a spune ce NU ESTE acel ceva. A\u0219adar, ce nu este smerenia? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Autodispre\u021b:<\/strong> Nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 s\u0103 te ur\u0103\u0219ti pe tine \u00eensu\u021bi sau s\u0103 te consideri lipsit\u0103 de valoare. Dumnezeu a creat omul dup\u0103 chipul \u0219i asem\u0103narea Sa, iar fiecare persoan\u0103 are o valoare intrinsec\u0103. Acum, ce este smerenia? <\/strong>( la intersec\u021bia dintre ortodoxie \u0219i coaching) <\/p>\n\n\n\n Cunoa\u0219terea de sine \u0219i a lui Dumnezeu<\/strong>: implic\u0103 con\u0219tientizarea propriilor limite, sl\u0103biciuni \u0219i gre\u0219eli, dar \u0219i a m\u0103re\u021biei \u0219i iubirii lui Dumnezeu. Este o atitudine de adev\u0103r, \u00een care te vezi a\u0219a cum e\u0219ti cu adev\u0103rat, f\u0103r\u0103 iluzii sau auto-am\u0103giri. F\u0103r\u0103 m\u0103\u0219ti. Ce este smerenia, din perspectiva unui c\u0103lug\u0103r budist (Matthieu Ricard) ? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n Oamenii smeri\u021bi nu sunt cei care nu pun pre\u021b pe ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i ci cei care nu fac caz de ego-ul lor. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n \u00cen concluzie, smerenia este o stare a inimii, o stare a min\u021bii. Este calea c\u0103tre o via\u021b\u0103 autentic\u0103, plin\u0103 de sens \u0219i de … bucurie! <\/p>\n\n\n\n Andrea N. <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" Asear\u0103, \u00een Oaza de Coaching: Tu, \u00eentre d\u0103ruire \u0219i limite, am ajuns p\u00e2n\u0103 la smerenie. Pentru c\u0103 \u00een coaching e…<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":1409,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[96],"tags":[716,41,713,15,42,714,46,717,52,712,711,715,371],"class_list":["post-1408","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-raboiul-de-tesut-povesti","tag-adevar","tag-bucurie","tag-budism","tag-coaching-2","tag-credinta","tag-ego","tag-iubire","tag-lifecoaching","tag-oradea","tag-ortodoxie","tag-smerenie","tag-valoare","tag-viata","post-archive"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1408","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1408"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1408\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1410,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1408\/revisions\/1410"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/1409"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1408"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1408"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1408"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}\n
Sl\u0103biciune sau la\u0219itate:<\/strong> Smerenia nu este o dovad\u0103 de sl\u0103biciune, ci de putere spiritual\u0103.
Pasivitate<\/strong>: Un om smerit nu este pasiv sau lipsit de ini\u021biativ\u0103, ci ac\u021bioneaz\u0103 din iubire \u0219i cu \u00eencredere \u00een providen\u021ba divin\u0103.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n\n
Lipsa de m\u00e2ndrie \u0219i slav\u0103 de\u0219art\u0103<\/strong>: Smerenia este opusul m\u00e2ndriei. Ea \u00ee\u021bi elibereaz\u0103 inima de nevoia de a fi recunoscut\u0103, l\u0103udat\u0103 sau de te considera superioar\u0103 altora. Egoul t\u0103u vrea s\u0103 fie l\u0103udat, apreciat, aplaudat, admirat, cel mai de\u0219tept, cel mai moral, ai \u00eenteles ideea…
\u00cencredere \u00een Dumnezeu<\/strong>: Smerenia cultiv\u0103 starea de … \u00eencredin\u021bare \u00een harul divin. Mult de scris aici, dar uite doar un indiciu: Ai s\u0103 auzi des la Tony Robbins (folosesc \u00een coaching instrumentele lui), life is happening for you, not to you. \u00cencredin\u021barea pe care o g\u0103sesti \u0219i \u00een ortodoxie(\u0219i nu numai) \ud83d\ude42
Acceptarea voin\u021bei lui Dumnezeu \u0219i a situa\u021biilor:<\/strong> pus\u0103 \u00een rela\u021bie cu coachingul, a\u0219a cum \u00eel practic eu, este vorba despre renun\u021barea la control. Atentie!!!! nu la lipsa responsabilitatii \u0219i asum\u0103rii pentru ce faci, ci la ie\u0219irea din starea de control-freak.
Iubire fa\u021b\u0103 de aproapele<\/strong>: Un om smerit nu se consider\u0103 mai bun dec\u00e2t ceilal\u021bi, ci \u00eei trateaz\u0103 cu respect \u0219i compasiune. Smerenia duce la o atitudine de slujire fa\u021b\u0103 de aproapele. \u00cen acela\u0219i timp, NU te faci mic\u0103 ca s\u0103 le faci altora lor, nu reduci din str\u0103lucirea ta. Ci pur si simplu NU te apuci s\u0103 te umfli \u00een pene ca s\u0103 fie ceilalti mai mici.
Pace interioar\u0103<\/strong>: preferata mea :)))))) Paradoxal, smerenia aduce o profund\u0103 pace interioar\u0103. de ce? C\u00e2nd renun\u021b\u0103m la nevoia de control, la ambi\u021biile egoiste \u0219i la teama de judecata celorlal\u021bi, inima devine lini\u0219tit\u0103 \u0219i eliberat\u0103. De ce? Pentru c\u0103 nu mai avem nimic de demonstrat, nim\u0103nui. Nici m\u0103car nou\u0103. De ce? Fiindc\u0103 \u0219tiu cui apar\u021bin (Iubirii Divine), \u0219tiu cine sunt (parte din Dumnezeu. ne\u00eensemnat\u0103, \u0219i totu\u0219i at\u00e2t de valoroas\u0103).
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