{"id":1309,"date":"2023-10-25T10:11:45","date_gmt":"2023-10-25T10:11:45","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=1309"},"modified":"2023-10-25T10:11:45","modified_gmt":"2023-10-25T10:11:45","slug":"circumstantele-sau-cum-dai-vina-pe-altii","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=1309","title":{"rendered":"Circumstan\u021bele sau cum dai vina pe al\u021bii"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Circumstan\u021bele se aranjeaz\u0103 dup\u0103 Via\u021ba ta. Nu Via\u021ba ta se aranjeaz\u0103 dup\u0103 circumstan\u021be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Cine e \u0219efa \u201ela\u201d via\u021ba ta? \ud83d\ude09<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>S\u0103 detaliez. Pentru tot ce nu \u00ee\u021bi iese \u0219i pentru tot ce nu ai curaj s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti, e\u0219ti mult prea obi\u0219nuit\u0103 s\u0103 dai vina pe via\u021b\u0103, pe soart\u0103, pe prieteni, pe p\u0103rin\u021bi, pe neamuri, pe \u0219efi, pe colegi, pe copii, pe so\u021b, pe so\u021bie, pe soacr\u0103, pe job, pe guvern, pe \u021bar\u0103, pe lume, pe Univers. \u00cen fine, ai recunoscut tiparul. C\u00e2nd faci asta, c\u00e2nd <strong><em>tr\u0103ie\u0219ti <\/em><\/strong>a\u0219a, toat\u0103 puterea ta s-a dus pe&#8230;apa s\u00e2mbetei! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i dac\u0103 tot \u021bi-ai dat puterea prin alte p\u0103r\u021bi, ce mai r\u0103m\u00e2ne? Pl\u00e2ngerea de mil\u0103! Ahh, devii chiar expert\u0103 \u0219i \u00eencepi: eu nu pot s\u0103 dau 100% la job findc\u0103 \u0219efa mea e o imbecil\u0103 \u0219i nu \u00eemi apreciaz\u0103 munca; nu o s\u0103 fiu fericit\u0103 niciodat\u0103 fiindc\u0103 nu m\u0103 ascult\u0103 copii; mama, tata\/so\u021bul nu m\u0103 sus\u021bine deci cum s\u0103 m\u0103 apuc eu de cursul\/businessul la care visez de at\u00e2ta vreme?!?! <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>\u0218i tootttt a\u0219a, p\u00e2n\u0103 la ad\u00e2nci b\u0103tr\u00e2ne\u021bi. A\u0219tep\u021bi s\u0103 se alinieze planetele. A\u0219tep\u021bi s\u0103 creasc\u0103 copiii. A\u0219tep\u021bi s\u0103 te \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 so\u021bul. A\u0219tep\u021bi s\u0103 mo\u0219tene\u0219ti pe m\u0103tu\u0219a Tamara. A\u0219tep\u021bi s\u0103 vin\u0103 cineva, de undeva, cumva, s\u0103 te salveze. A\u0219tep\u021bi. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Sau ! <\/strong>te saturi \u00een sf\u00e2r\u0219it s\u0103-\u021bi alimentezi pl\u00e2ngerile de mil\u0103 fiindc\u0103 a\u0219a tr\u0103ie\u0219ti e o existen\u021b\u0103 de mizerie. Ce Via\u021b\u0103 e asta?!?!?! una de nevertebrat\u0103, de t\u00e2r\u00e2toare, de molusc\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00ce\u021bi pl\u00e2ngi de mil\u0103 fiindc\u0103 joci la scar\u0103 mic\u0103-mic\u0103-mic\u0103. Fiindc\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi tr\u0103ie\u0219ti via\u021ba \u00eentr-un mod patetic. <strong><em>Irose\u0219ti Via\u021ba asta,<\/em><\/strong> care e un Dar absolut. Via\u021ba asta fantastic\u0103, colorat\u0103, exuberant\u0103, clocotitoare, tu ai redus-o la a\u0219tept\u0103ri. Via\u021ba asta \u00een care Tu, \u00een esen\u021b\u0103, e\u0219ti dup\u0103 chipul \u0219i asem\u0103narea lui Dumnezeu, tu alegi s\u0103  tr\u0103ie\u0219ti judec\u00e2ndu-i pe al\u021bii, critic\u00e2nd, pun\u00e2nd etichete, irosind tot ce ai mai frumos.<strong><em> Cum te opre\u0219ti?<\/em><\/strong> \u00een primul r\u00e2nd, plec de la premiza c\u0103 vrei cu adev\u0103rat s\u0103 te opre\u0219ti din a fi molusc\u0103. Po\u021bi alege \u0219i s\u0103 continui \u00een acela\u0219i stil, dar m\u0103car nu-\u021bi mai pl\u00e2nge de mil\u0103 c\u0103 via\u021ba ta e patetic\u0103. Asum\u0103-\u021bi alegerea. <strong>Dac\u0103 vrei ceva diferit, atunci asta e calea: <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>Joac\u0103 la scar\u0103 mare. Nu zic eu acum s\u0103 descoperi leacul pentru cancer sau s\u0103 pleci \u00een expedi\u021bie pe Everest. Dar pune-ti o miz\u0103 mare: prin ceea ce faci, la nivelul la care e\u0219ti, f\u0103 o diferen\u021b\u0103 \u00een bine pentru cei pe care \u00eei ai \u00een jur. Adu o contribu\u021bie la jobul t\u0103u. Mi\u0219c\u0103 lucrurile. Fii o prezen\u021b\u0103 vindec\u0103toare pentru familia ta. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>\u0218i abia acum nu vei mai avea timp s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi pl\u00e2ngi de mil\u0103. Oamenii care au <strong>o misiune mai mare dec\u00e2t confortul<\/strong> lor au \u0219i inten\u021bii care cresc v\u0103z\u00e2nd cu ochii. \u00cencepe din locul \u00een care e\u0219ti, cu tot ceea ce e\u0219ti. <strong><em>\u00cenflore\u0219te acolo unde e\u0219ti plantat\u0103<\/em><\/strong>. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A.N <\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\">\n<p>sprinkle some extra on your ordinary <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Circumstan\u021bele se aranjeaz\u0103 dup\u0103 Via\u021ba ta. Nu Via\u021ba ta se aranjeaz\u0103 dup\u0103 circumstan\u021be. 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