sunt utile p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00eentr-un punct. Nu vorbesc despre m\u0103stile de carnaval ci despre toate acele comportamente pe care le adopt\u0103m pentru a fi accepta\u021bi social. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
M\u0103\u0219tile te protejeaz\u0103 \u00eentr-o oarecare m\u0103sur\u0103, dar te \u00eendep\u0103rteaz\u0103 de tine, de esen\u021ba ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\nDe asta este uneori at\u00e2t de greu s\u0103 r\u0103spunzi la \u00eentrebarea \u201eCine sunt?\u201d .<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
Nu ai cum s\u0103 \u0219tii cine e\u0219ti, at\u00e2ta vreme c\u00e2t ai pus strat peste strat peste strat de protec\u021bie. E\u0219ti acceptat\u0103 social, dar te-ai \u00eendep\u0103rtat de esen\u021ba ta. Observ\u0103 asta. Nu e nici bine, nici r\u0103u, pur \u0219i simplu este ceea ce este. Nu e cazul acum s\u0103 te \u00eenvinov\u0103\u021be\u0219ti. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
At\u00e2t de mult \u00ee\u021bi va pl\u0103cea persoana pe care o vei descoperi \u00eenc\u00e2t nu vei mai da \u00eenapoi. Momentul \u00een care \u00eencepi c\u0103utarea de Sine, c\u0103utarea de tine cea Adev\u0103rat\u0103, este unul din cele mai pre\u021bioase momente. \u00cen starea de adult con\u0219tient accep\u021bi c\u0103 nu mai conteaz\u0103 acceptarea social\u0103<\/strong><\/em>.<\/p>\n\n\n\n
De ce ai format aceste m\u0103\u0219ti? Ai fost bebelu\u0219 \u0219i ai avut deschidere s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021bi despre lumea din jur. Asta \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 nu ai avut mecanisme de ap\u0103rare, de filtrare. Ai absorbit tot ce ai avut \u00een jur: iubire, respingere, ne\u00eencredere, bucurie. Tot. F\u0103r\u0103 filtru. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
Acum \u00eens\u0103 e\u0219ti adult, ai op\u021biuni. \u0218i de filtrare \u0219i de ap\u0103rare. Dar mai ales, ai op\u021biunea de a \u00eencepe s\u0103 tr\u0103ie\u0219ti. Ie\u0219i din modul de \u201eSupravie\u021buire\u201d \u00een care musai s\u0103 de\u021bii controlul, \u00een care \u00ee\u021bi pl\u00e2ngi mult de mil\u0103, te victimizezi. <\/p>\n\n\n\n
\nStarea de fericire o tr\u0103ie\u0219ti atunci c\u00e2nd beneficiezi \u00een totalitate de Via\u021ba ta<\/strong>. <\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n
A.N<\/p>\n\n\n\n
\nsprinkle some extra on your ordinary<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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