{"id":1167,"date":"2020-04-08T11:16:00","date_gmt":"2020-04-08T11:16:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=1167"},"modified":"2020-04-03T23:19:23","modified_gmt":"2020-04-03T23:19:23","slug":"zilele-abandonului-elena-ferrante","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=1167","title":{"rendered":"Zilele abandonului- Elena Ferrante"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

C\u00e2nd mi-am comandat aceste trei c\u0103r\u021bi eram foarte curioas\u0103 s\u0103 aflu mai multe despre universul Ferrante. R\u0103m\u0103sesem vr\u0103jit\u0103 de tetralogia Prietena mea genial\u0103, \u0219i vroiam mai mult. Cred c\u0103 sunt un caz clasic de cititor obsedat e un autor. La fel am p\u0103\u021bit \u0219i cu Eric Emanuel Schmitt, doar c\u0103 lui \u00eei \u00eendr\u0103gesc absolut fiecare carte din cele peste 15 titluri citite p\u00e2n\u0103 acum. Cu Elena am sentimente mixte, vorba americanilor. Zilele abandonului,<\/strong> a\u0219adar… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

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De ce s\u0103 cite\u0219ti cartea?<\/strong> <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ferrante te poart\u0103 \u00eentr-un mod uluitor de real, de brut, printre emo\u021biile unei p\u0103r\u0103siri nedrepte. Nu \u0219tiu ce a tr\u0103it femeia asta la via\u021ba ei, ce a v\u0103zut, ce i s-a povestit, dar universul pe care \u021bi-l pune \u00een fa\u021b\u0103 prin c\u0103r\u021bile ei este credibil de la primul r\u00e2nd p\u00e2n\u0103 la ultimul. A\u0219a \u0219i aici. Olga este \u00een\u0219elat\u0103 \u0219i p\u0103r\u0103sit\u0103 de so\u021b, dup\u0103 15 ani de c\u0103s\u0103torie. <\/p>

Tot tumultul prin care trece Olga, cu c\u0103\u021bel \u0219i purcel cu tot, c\u0103 doar nu e singur\u0103 pe lume: are doi copii \u0219i un c\u00e2ine-lup cu distinsul so\u021b-fost so\u021b, te va purta \u0219i pe tine pe abisurile disper\u0103rii. Dar \u0219i pe culmile bucuriei. <\/p>

Dac\u0103 e\u0219ti genul care rezolv\u0103 rapid situa\u021biile, cartea Iubire amar\u0103 nu e de tine. O s\u0103 te apuce nervii cu Olga care nu mai trece odat\u0103 peste t\u00e2mpitul de Mario. Ai s\u0103 vrei s\u0103 o iei deoparte pe femeia care s-a sacrificat pe sine pentru so\u021b \u0219i copii, s\u0103 \u00eei dai dou\u0103 palme \u0219i s\u0103 \u00eei spui: \u201eRevino-\u021bi femeie! Mi\u0219c\u0103-\u021bi fundul \u0219i tr\u0103ie\u0219te-\u021bi via\u021ba!\u201d <\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

Pasajul meu preferat? <\/strong>b\u0103taiiiiaaaaaaaaa …. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

\u201e Cert e c\u0103, abia c\u00e2nd am recunoscut-o, m-a izbit imaginea cerceilor, cerceii bunicii lui Mario, cerceii mei. \u00cei at\u00e2rnau de lobii urechilor, \u00eei accentuau elegant g\u00e2tul, \u00eei f\u0103ceau zambetul \u0219i mai str\u0103lucitor, \u00een timp ce so\u021bul meu , \u00een fa\u021ba vitrinei, o cuprindea de talie cu bucuria unui gest de posesiune, iar ea i\u0219i sprijinea de um\u0103rul lui un bra\u021b gol. Timpul s-a dilatat. Am traversat strada cu pa\u0219i mari \u0219i hot\u0103r\u00e2\u021bi, nu sim\u021beam nicio dorin\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 \u021bip sau s\u0103 pl\u00e2ng sau s\u0103 cer explica\u021bii, doar o dorin\u021b\u0103 frenetic\u0103 \u0219i sumbr\u0103 de distrugere. Acum \u0219tiam c\u0103 m\u0103 \u00een\u0219elase aproape cinci ani. Infam, la\u0219. \u00centr-atat \u00eenc\u00e2t s\u0103 nu \u00eemi poat\u0103 spune ce i se \u00eent\u00e2mplase cu adev\u0103rat. <\/p>

Am ajuns \u00een spatele lui. Am intrat \u00een el cu toat\u0103 greutatea mea, ca un berbece, l-am \u00eempins \u00een vitrin\u0103, de care s-a izbit cu fa\u021ba. Ea poate c\u0103 a \u021bipat dar eu \u00eentre timp l-am \u00eenf\u0103\u0219cat pe Mario care \u00eentorcea capul cu privirea \u0219ocat\u0103, \u00eei curgea s\u00e2nge din nas, se uita la mine plin de groaz\u0103 \u0219i de stupoare totodat\u0103. L-am prins de c\u0103ma\u0219\u0103 \u0219i am smucit cu o asemenea violen\u021b\u0103, \u00eenc\u00e2t i-am sf\u00e2\u0219iat-o la um\u0103rul drept, m-am trezit cu partea din fa\u021b\u0103 a c\u0103m\u0103\u0219ii \u00een m\u00e2ini. ….. L-am lovit \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103 \u0219i \u00eenc\u0103 o dat\u0103, el a c\u0103zut e trotuar. L-am luat \u00een \u0219uturi, o dat\u0103 de dou\u0103 ori de trei ori, dar- nu stiu de ce – nu s-a ap\u0103rat. \u201d <\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n

S\u0103 ne \u00een\u021belegem: nu sunt adepta violen\u021bei, dar nenicule, \u0219i-a meritat-o cu v\u00e2rf \u0219i \u00eendesat. \u0218i nu pentru c\u0103 a ales s\u0103 tr\u0103iasc\u0103 cu altcineva. P\u00e2n\u0103 la urm\u0103, \u0219i \u00een trecut dar \u0219i \u00een zilele noastre, loialitatea \u0219i fidelitatea sunt chestiuni pe care nu toat\u0103 lumea le tr\u0103ie\u0219te. Pu\u021bini sunt aceia care \u00een\u021beleg \u0219i pre\u021buiesc familia la adev\u0103rata ei valoare. Dar dac\u0103 tot alegi s\u0103 te duci, f\u0103-o cu demnitate. Asum\u0103-\u021bi. Spune pe fa\u021b\u0103, nu umbla cu cioara vopsit\u0103. Nu \u0219tiu dac\u0103 este ceva mai m\u00e2r\u0219av, mai pervers, dec\u00e2t s\u0103 \u0219tii c\u0103 vrei s\u0103 pleci de l\u00e2ng\u0103 o persoan\u0103 dar s\u0103 alegi s\u0103 o \u00een\u0219eli. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bucuria de a fi al\u0103turi de so\u021bul\/so\u021bia ta, de a v\u0103 descoperi chiar \u0219i dup\u0103 15 ani de c\u0103s\u0103torie, nu sunt doar mituri \u0219i legende urbane. Doar c\u0103 nici nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103r\u0103ri pline mereu cu flori \u0219i fluturi roz. Mai dai de o groap\u0103 pe care n-o vezi, te \u00eempiedici, cazi. Dar te ajut\u0103 s\u0103 te ridici. Omul nu e o linie dreapt\u0103, plictisitoare, care are un drum predefinit. Suntem bucle, semne de infinit, \u00een continu\u0103 mi\u0219care \u0219i cre\u0219tere. \u0218i nici nu cred s\u0103 fie ceva mai frumos pe lumea asta ca doi oameni care cresc \u00eempreun\u0103, care devin \u00eempreun\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Ce-mi place mie cel mai mult la om, a\u0219a la om \u00een general? Capacitatea de revenire. Puterea de a transforma o catastrof\u0103 \u00eentr-un catalizator de fapte bune, de m\u0103re\u021bie chiar. Inima care e at\u00e2t de fragil\u0103 dar care poate transforma \u00een bucurie cele mai ad\u00e2nci suferin\u021be. <\/p>\n\n\n\n

Bucurie, bucurie, bucurie… <\/p>\n\n\n\n

A.N <\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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