{"id":1158,"date":"2020-04-06T10:02:00","date_gmt":"2020-04-06T10:02:00","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=1158"},"modified":"2020-04-03T22:07:40","modified_gmt":"2020-04-03T22:07:40","slug":"iubire-amara-elena-ferrante","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/?p=1158","title":{"rendered":"Iubire amar\u0103- Elena Ferrante"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Imediat dup\u0103 ce am terminat cartea Fiica ascuns\u0103, am luat \u00een bra\u021be <strong>Iubirea amar\u0103. <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"768\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/20200321_120340-1-768x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1160\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/20200321_120340-1-768x1024.jpg 768w, https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/20200321_120340-1-225x300.jpg 225w, https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/20200321_120340-1-1152x1536.jpg 1152w, https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/20200321_120340-1-1536x2048.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/20200321_120340-1-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 768px) 100vw, 768px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>\u00cen zilele acestea am un ritm de o carte pe zi, dac\u0103 e cartea p\u00e2n\u0103 \u00een 200 de pagini. Tocmai de asta vor urma cateva articole pe blog dedicate Jurnalului de lectur\u0103. Asta e, st\u0103m acas\u0103 cumin\u021bei \u0219i citim mult, de la mic la mare. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>De ce s\u0103 cite\u0219ti cartea? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>The New York Times zice c\u0103 \u00een aceast\u0103 carte vocea Elenei Ferrante are o for\u021b\u0103 nemai\u00eent\u00e2lnit\u0103. Nu m\u0103 apuc eu s\u0103 intru \u00een polemici cu NYT, dar personal nu mi-a l\u0103sat impresia asta. De\u0219i am terminat cartea de o s\u0103pt\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103, nu mi-a r\u0103mas \u00eentip\u0103rit\u0103 \u00een minte a\u0219a cum au f\u0103cut-o cele patru volume din Prietena mea genial\u0103. <\/p><p>Ac\u021biunea se petrece \u00een Napoli, un ora\u0219 pe care fie vei ajunge s\u0103 \u00eel iube\u0219ti, fie s\u0103 \u00eel ur\u0103\u0219ti, dup\u0103 ce \u00eel vezi prin ochi de Ferrante. Eu una, m-am \u00eendr\u0103gostit iremediabil. A\u0219a c\u0103 l-am pus pe lista \u201ede vizitat\u201d pentru 2021. <\/p><p>\u021ai se va dezv\u0103lui o rela\u021bie mam\u0103-fiic\u0103 din toate unghiurile posibile. Ceea ce va duce, inevitabil, la o analiz\u0103 a propriei tale rela\u021bii pe care o ai cu mama ta. Este o carte care ridic\u0103 \u00eentreb\u0103ri, de\u0219i la prima vedere ai tendin\u021ba s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2i ancorat \u00een povestea \u00eencalcit\u0103 a mor\u021bii Amaliei. <\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Pasajul meu preferat? <\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>Hmmm&#8230; mi-e foarte greu s\u0103 aleg. \u00cen principal pentru c\u0103 aceast\u0103 carte m-a \u00eentristat tare. \u0218i am fost tare dezam\u0103git\u0103 de alegerile pe care le-au f\u0103cut femeile din aceste pagini. Cu toate astea..<\/p><p>\u201eLa primele raze de soare am pornit pe o c\u0103rare nisipoas\u0103. Erau doar c\u0103r\u0103bu\u0219i \u0219i \u0219op\u00e2rle nemi\u0219cate, a\u0219tept\u00e2nd s\u0103 se \u00eenc\u0103lzeasc\u0103. Frunzele trestiilor, cu care f\u0103cusem pentru mine \u0219i pentru surorile mele schelete de zmeie, \u00eemi udau taiorul cum le atingeam. Mi-am scos pantofii \u0219i mi-am afundat picioarele dureroase \u00eentr-un nisip rece, fin \u0219i murdar, printre tot felul de gunoaie. &#8230;&#8230;&#8230;.. M\u0103 \u00eentorsesem deja \u00een locul acela dup\u0103 moartea mamei mele. Nu v\u0103zusem nici marea nici plaja. V\u0103zusem doar detalii: ghiocul alb al unei scoici, dungat\u0103 riguros, un rac cu abdomeul segmentat \u00eentors spre soare, trunchiul acela pe care m\u0103 a\u0219ezasem. M\u0103 \u00eentrebam de ce mama mea hot\u0103r\u00e2se s\u0103 moar\u0103 \u00een locul acela. N-aveam s\u0103 aflu niciodat\u0103. Eram singura surs\u0103 posibil\u0103 a pove\u0219tii, nu puteam \u0219i nici nu voiam, s\u0103 caut \u00eenafara mea.\u201d <\/p><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-large\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"960\" height=\"720\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/69915490_2560100134054678_7245955680593510400_o.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-1164\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/69915490_2560100134054678_7245955680593510400_o.jpg 960w, https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/69915490_2560100134054678_7245955680593510400_o-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/04\/69915490_2560100134054678_7245955680593510400_o-768x576.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 960px) 100vw, 960px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p>Rela\u021biile cu p\u0103rin\u021bii pot fi de multe ori foarte complicate. Alteori, nu. Cel mai important e c\u0103 acestea pot evolua, pot cre\u0219te frumos, atunci c\u00e2nd ambele p\u0103r\u021bi- \u0219i copii \u0219i p\u0103rin\u021bi- aleg s\u0103 fac\u0103 asta, \u00eempreun\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Acum, c\u0103 sunt p\u0103rinte la r\u00e2ndul meu, \u00eemi dau seama c\u00e2t de u\u0219or este s\u0103 gre\u0219e\u0219ti, din iubire. Tocmai de aceea nu mai judec p\u0103rin\u021bii, fie ei din genera\u021bii trecute sau din genera\u021bia mea. Sigur, aici \u00eei exclud pe cei care fac r\u0103u voit. De ce Amalia a ales s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 at\u00e2t de mult l\u00e2ng\u0103 un b\u0103rbat care a terorizat-o? De ce a ales forma asta de ap\u0103rare pentru fetele ei? Cum poate un tat\u0103, un so\u021b, s\u0103 cultive cu bun\u0103 \u0219tiin\u021b\u0103 teama \u00een familia sa? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Conexiunea pe care o am cu cei din jurul meu este cel mai important lucru pentru mine. Rela\u021biile construite. Sunt un om al oamenilor, ca s\u0103 zic a\u0219a. Aceasta este comoara mea \u0219i cred cu t\u0103rie c\u0103 iubirea, grija, gra\u021bia dintre oameni aduc cele mai frumoase amintiri \u0219i scot la iveal\u0103 cele mai neb\u0103nuite resurse. Tocmai de aceea \u00eemi este at\u00e2t de greu \u00een perioada asta de distan\u021bare social\u0103. Auzi, ce nume i-au g\u0103sit; p\u00e2n\u0103 \u0219i sintagma asta mi se pare rece ca un bloc de marmur\u0103.  M-am g\u00e2ndit deseori ce vreau s\u0103 las mo\u0219tenire copiilor mei, ce \u201eurm\u0103\u201d vreau s\u0103 las \u00een lumea asta. Mult timp a fost o \u00eentrebare f\u0103r\u0103 r\u0103spuns, sau cu r\u0103spunsuri \u00een care nu prea credeam. De la o vreme \u00eens\u0103, mi-e tot mai clar: bucuria de a fi cu adev\u0103rat \u00eempreun\u0103. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>A.N <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>P.S: dac\u0103 cite\u0219ti \u0219i tu Iubire Amar\u0103, \u00eemp\u0103rt\u0103\u0219e\u0219te cu mine p\u0103rerea ta. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Fotografii din arhiva personal\u0103. <\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Imediat dup\u0103 ce am terminat cartea Fiica ascuns\u0103, am luat \u00een bra\u021be Iubirea amar\u0103. \u00cen zilele acestea am un ritm&#8230;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[454],"tags":[41,541,15,91,281,46,471,472,500,227,462,546,545,544,543,542,371],"class_list":["post-1158","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-jurnal-de-lectura","tag-bucurie","tag-carte","tag-coaching-2","tag-copii","tag-fiica","tag-iubire","tag-jurnal","tag-lectura","tag-mama","tag-mare","tag-moarte","tag-mostenire","tag-napoli","tag-pasaj","tag-relatii-2","tag-valuri","tag-viata","post-archive"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1158","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=1158"}],"version-history":[{"count":2,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1158\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1166,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1158\/revisions\/1166"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=1158"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=1158"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blog.andreaneag.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=1158"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}